Pamela Ugbonta
Safe Together
A One-day Bonding Experience for Parents and their Children, Fostering Love, Trust, Openness and a Safe space for expression.(For Parents and their Kids Ages 7-15)
Your child is growing up in a world you never did.
And here’s the uncomfortable truth most parents avoid:
If your child doesn’t feel safe talking to you, they will talk to someone else.
That “someone else” could be
a friend who is just as confused
a stranger online
social media
pornography
or the internet at large
None of these truly care about your child’s future the way you do.
Most parents love their children deeply.
But love alone is not enough.
Many children don’t see their parents as:• safe listeners
• trusted guides
• emotional allies
• or friends they can open up toNot because parents are bad,
but because connection is rarely taught.
So children learn to:
• hide questions
• suppress curiosity
• explore dangerous topics alone
• and form beliefs without guidanceBy the time parents notice, the damage is already happening quietly.And the most painful part?
Your child may be struggling… while believing that "Mom/Dad wouldn’t understand."
Your Child just wants to feel Safe, Heard and Understood
And Nobody loves your child more than you doYou are their biggest cheerleader.
No one wants their success more than you. No one cares more than you do.
And you don’t guide them because you want anything from them,
but simply because you love them.And when you create an environment where they truly feel safe with their parent?* Conversations become honest
* Questions become healthy
* Curiosity becomes guided
* Mistakes become teachable moments
* Trust becomes natural
That’s what this event is about.
Not control.
Not fear.
Not lectures.
But connection.
Safe Together
A One-day Bonding Experience for Parents and their Children, Fostering Love, Trust, Openness and a Safe space for expression.
(For Parents and their Kids Ages 7-15)
Event i Details
Location
Mainland, Lagos.
(specific location to be communicated to registered participants)
Date & Time
Saturday, 28th february '26.
8AM (GMT +1)
Key Activities
* Key Activities
* Meaningful conversations
* Play and bonding
* Practical education
* Real-world safety tools
* Laughter, games, and shared memories
EVENT HIGHLIGHTS
Topics We Will Address
(Age-Appropriate & Carefully Guided)
Drugs and substance abuse
Cybercrime
Bullying
Cultism
Social media dangers
Online and offline security
Internet addiction
Intentional security parenting in a digital age
How to protect your kids, without pushing them away
Practical Parenting Tools You’ll Learn
How to protect your child from social media addiction
How to monitor online usage responsibly
How to guide without spying
How to build trust while setting boundaries
How to become your child’s safe place
Fun, Bonding & Interactive Activities
Playtime (physical games)
Sip & Paint (game)
Family competitions
Karaoke
Food & refreshments
Guided bonding exercises
Shared laughter and memories
Select Your Ticket
100k
Individual pass (One parent)
Full Access to the event
Custom Event T-shirt
Beautiful Event Brochure
Access for all Games
Food and drinks
Continuous flow of small chops
Sip & Paint Experience
Learning from Top Security Experts
Keepsakes
A Fully Curated Bonding Experience
170k
Company of Two (A iparent & child or two parents)
Full Access to the event
Custom Event T-shirt
Beautiful Event Brochure
Access for all Games
Food and drinks
Continuous flow of small chops
Sip & Paint Experience
Learning from Top Security Experts
Keepsakes
A Fully Curated Bonding Experience
250k
Company of Three (Two Parents & A child or A Parent & two children)
Full Access to the event
Custom Event T-shirt
Beautiful Event Brochure
Access for all Games
Food and drinks
Continuous flow of small chops
Sip & Paint Experience
Learning from Top Security Experts
Keepsakes
A Fully Curated Bonding Experience
A Bonding Experience designed to:
This is an investment in your child’s safety, your family’s bond, your peace of mind, your child’s future.
Join Us for Safe Together 2026
A One-day Bonding Experience for Parents and their Children, Fostering Love, Trust, Openness and a Safe space for expression.
(For Parents and their Kids Ages 8-15)
Pamela Ugbonta
Pamela Ugbonta is a seasoned security professional with over 15 years of hands-on experience in national and family security, including over a decade of service with the Department of State Services (DSS), where she served in various departments across the Lagos, Anambra, Imo, and Enugu Commands. Her work has been driven by a deep commitment to safeguarding lives, protecting vulnerable populations, and strengthening security consciousness at both institutional and family levels.With an MSc in Criminology from the University of Lagos, Masters in Leadership and Defense Studies from the Nigerian Defence Academy, and ASIS Triple Certification, Pamela brings a rare blend of field intelligence and strategic insight to modern security challenges. She has also completed advanced professional training in United Nation's Disarmament and Demobilization, Civil-Military Cooperation, Political Advisory, and Senior Staff Course at the Martin Luther Agwai International Leadership Peacekeeping Centre, and the Armed Forces Command and Staff College, Jaji, Kaduna respectively. Her expertise spans child safety, family security systems, and emerging threats affecting homes and communities in today’s rapidly changing world. She is currently authoring a book on child security in the modern age, addressing the realities parents must navigate; from digital exposure to physical and social risks, while offering practical, proactive solutions.Pamela is the convener of the Safe Together Bootcamp, a family-focused security and bonding experience designed to equip parents with the tools, mindset, and frameworks needed to raise children in a safe, open, and trust-filled environment. Beyond security education, she is also an entrepreneur who runs multiple successful businesses and is establishing an NGO with her friends focused on providing emergency aid and support to victims of road accidents and highway incidents, gunshot and stab wound victims, and ensuring they receive immediate attention, reflecting her lifelong passion for human safety and dignity.
MEET THE HOST
OTHER KEY SPEAKERS
Franklin Chijioke Okpara
Market Security Lead- West Africa | UnileverFranklin Okpara is a seasoned security professional with over a decade of experience in maritime, banking, and corporate security. He joined Unilever Nigeria in 2013 and rose through the ranks from Site Security Supervisor to Country Security Lead, now serves as Market Security Lead for West Africa.He holds a B.Sc. in Management (University of Nigeria), a Diploma in Security Operations (University of Lagos), and a PGD in Logistics and Supply Chain. NEBOSH certified and pursuing a Master's in Security and Intelligence Studies.Franklin is a Certified Protection Officer, a Spy Chief Superintendent of Police, and a member of several professional bodies including ASIS and the Nigeria Institute of Industrial Security. His accolades include multiple Unilever global and regional awards and recognition as a UN Ambassador for Peace, Anti-Crime Ambassador ECAPI Lagos State. OSAC Africa 2026 Steering Committee member.A proud Nigerian from the South-East, Franklin is a widower and father of two. His purpose is rooted in continuous growth, challenging norms, and helping others discover their path.
Stella Okoh
Stella Okoh is a seasoned security, anti-fraud, and cybersecurity professional with more than 15 years of experience across banking, energy, and private security environments. She has worked with organizations such as Keystone Bank, Mantra Protection Solutions Ltd, and Seplat Energy Plc.She holds a BSc in Accounting and Finance, an Advanced Certificate (SRF) in Security Management, and globally recognized certifications including CPP, PCI, PSP (ASIS International), CFE (Association Of Certified Fraud Examiners), PFSO (International Maritime Organization), and Google Cybersecurity Professional Certificate.Her work emphasizes prevention, awareness, and responsible decision-making. With a background in finance and security, she brings a practical approach to safety education and is committed to helping parents and children understand how to stay safe in today’s physical and digital world.
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